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A guide to bondage

There are so many different types of equipment and toys that you can use. referring to the products that we got as our intro into the world of bondage!

Blindfolds

The most basic bit of kit that should be in every ‘bondage’ box should be a blindfold. Restricting your own (or your lovers) eyesight is a simple and non-threatening way of creating new and stimulating experiences with very minimal effort.

Tickler

The ‘least threatening’ is about as threatening as a cute friendly puppy. But when used correctly, it can help stimulate those nerve-endings, leading to heightened sensations. Just a light, delicate touch helps draw the blood to the surface to increase sensitivity and pleasure.

The best way to use a tickler, is to hold it very lightly between your fingers, and slowly and very carefully drag the tickler across your partners naked body, paying particular attention to those areas that have multiple nerve endings (bottom of hands, feet, nipples, genitals etc).

Cuffs

Using restraints in the bedroom is not something one would normally consider lightly. Tying someone up (or having them tie you up) requires a good deal of trust – and is certainly something you would discuss first. But once you’ve agreed and gotten into it, being cuffed is wonderful fun.

Spanker

Using a spanker is once again something that you really need to think about before you just go ahead and start thrashing away, because you can cause some serious damage!

The soft satin side is great for gentle little slaps – you can spank them with it, and then rub the soft silky satin over the area to soothe it. It’s a great way to ask for more – which is when you can switch it over the the leather side, for a spank that’s got a bit more of a bite

Just remember, when you are using a spanker, you should take care:

  • § NEVER hit someone anywhere other than thighs/buttocks. If you hit them anywhere else, you risk a serious injury
  • § Agree a safe word – if the spanking gets too much, then use the safe word and cease. This is where trust is a huge part of enjoying a safe and satisfying BDSM experience.
  • § Unless the spankee has expressed otherwise, try not to focus all the attention on one area. Trust me, it gets very sore, very quickly, and whilst those more hardened sub’s might appreciate it, when you are still new, it can get a bit much!
  • § Always use an after-spanking lotion (or something with Aloe Vera in it) to help soothe and calm red skin.

Flogger

A basic flogger will be small ‘whip’ which has multiple strands (called Falls) attached to a handle. They are made from all sorts of different materials – Suede, Leather, PVC, Nylon, Rubber, Chain… picking the right material for a beginner is incredibly important – as different materials will feel different on impact.

Advanced Restraints

Simply put, these are cuffs that you hook over a door, so when you close it, they are held in place

 

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