Sex Toys: A Complete Guide
There's more to sex toys than a basic vibrator.
We're here to shed light on a few of our most popular sex toys and how to use them, whether you're exploring alone or experimenting with a partner.
If there's one toy you should have in your nightstand, it's a vibrator. They come in all shapes and sizes and can pack tons of different features, so you should be able to find one that you, ahem, vibe with.
Many agree that a rabbit vibrator is the best vibrator for women. That's because most rabbits feature a shaft for penetration and a protruding arm for clitoral stimulation (the arm is often shaped like a bunny, hence the name). Simultaneous penetration and clitoral stimulation are necessary for many women to orgasm.
Dildos and Dongs
If you're interested in penetration, dildos and dongs are ideal beginner toys because their phallic shapes come in an array of sizes and their movement is controlled entirely by you or your partner, instead of a motor. You can also choose between a soft, silicone toy and a hard, completely smooth toy made of glass or steel. To keep things comfortable, don't forget the lubricant.
Strap-ons come with two pieces, the dildo and the harness. The dildo fits into a hole in the front of the harness, which one partner wears around their hips. Strap-ons are used for penetrative sex, both vaginal and anal.
Clitoral Suction Devices
Clitoral suction devices fit snugly around your clitoris and then use waves of suction to induce orgasms. Fans liken it to oral sex. Most devices are rechargeable, which makes them perfect for use away from a wall socket.
These small sex toys for women are shaped like tubes of lipstick for the utmost discretion
Anal sex can be a healthy addition to any sex life, but there are plenty of other ways to explore the area besides just traditional penetration. That's where anal toys come in. Anal toys are specifically made to go into the anus and have flared bases or loops at the end to prevent them from getting stuck.
These toys feature balls of varying sizes on a long string. You insert the beads into the anus to stimulate it, starting with the smaller beads and working your way up to the larger ones. Anal beads are typically made of hygienic rubber or silicone, and they feature a loop/handle for safe, easy extraction.
Kegel Balls (AKA Ben Wa Balls)
Kegel balls, also known as ben wa balls slip inside the vagina, where they are held in place by a bit of flexing—a motion that can massage the G-spot. An attached cord typically allows for added stimulation and easy retrieval. These weighted balls also have benefits beyond the bedroom to help strengthen the pelvic-floor muscles, which may help with urinary incontinence, aid recovery after childbirth, and help you achieve stronger orgasms over time.
Important note: Kegel balls should never be used anally.